The Human Mind. Marion Julius

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      Example:

      Girl: "I can't do this anymore I quit its just too hard."

      Manager: "Don't worry its okay you can do it we'll get you more training."

      If you feel like giving up don't because there's always a way to get better at things no one is perfect. There are supportive people who understand that human error occurs and so you can get help try again don't panic.

      Boy: "This is so ridiculous how am I going to finish one hundred claims in a day this stupid computer is so slow."

      Manager: "Relax okay thanks for telling me I'll cut down your target for the day don't give up."

      If at first you don't succeed try and try again, believe in yourself.

      Don't give up.

      Chapter 8: Risk Taking

      Take The Risk Or Play Safe

      At times people consider taking a risk with decision making and/or gambling some risk takers risk it all and don't really worry about what happens after. They often invest a lot of money including their houses and with other things they are prepared to even lie and do whatever they can for personal gain to get what they want. However some other people like to play safe and are very careful with what they do so they don't take the risk when doing things.

      Taking the risk there's a chance you might have an outcome where it's up to you that would be an individual choice some people are ready to go out and gamble and spend their last and others can control their behavior. These risk takers chase and chase trying to win they are addicted to it and they deny they have a problem.

      There are people who are just obsessed with gambling and have no control over it they addicted and cannot stop. This is where even though your thinking keep going and keep trying you might get lucky you should be really thinking no its time to stop. Have a break then try again another time or perhaps you’d be thinking no I cannot control this I really do need help and put your hand up for help. Gambling addicts don’t stop and they’ll borrow and some even steal to do this its a huge problem and sometime some only find out its a problem when its too late when they’ve lost it all and they’re homeless with nothing.

      If you’re gambling in moderation then that’s okay if you’ve stuck to a strict budget and can control what you use making sure you’ve covered enough money for other important things then its okay. Play safe and stop altogether if you know you’re weak in that area and its too risky for you to do it then just stop and train yourself to say no keeping away from all those gambling places and people.

      Think hard about what you're about to do your actions lead to consequences.

      Chapter 9: Fix Mistakes

      Learn By Your Mistakes

      Everyone makes mistakes sometime in their life we are all human and human error happens. By rectifying our mistakes and correcting them getting further training to get better at something this could take time and/or you could try and not repeat that same mistake by being more careful and try by writing things down so you can remember it (diary/notebook) you could also stick up posted notes by your desk depending on your situation. When we are in a situation we can then be much better at it and won't repeat that mistake things happen however if you can see where you went wrong the last time and try do things differently so that it won't be repeated. In our daily life we can easily make mistakes in general with different things and we look at it and its nothing to really worry about however with other problems when you make mistakes it can take an effect on your life and include other people which turns the situation into a big problems. Most times people can forgive you with doing little mistakes but with some other things you can not be forgiven.

      Then if you double check, cross check and if needed get a second opinion to ensure that the information/details are accurate and correct especially when things are very important its necessary to make sure things are right. Overlooking things and not concentrating then its possible you can mess things up. Mistakes depending on how big the mistake is can be fixed and/or sorted out through.

      Example:

      The Criminal: "Oh no I shouldn't of did that what if I left a piece of mashed up bone fragment somewhere? Oops what if I told the wrong person will they set me up and tell the police what have I done oh god I shouldn’t of did that mistake I'm in big trouble."

      The Detective: "Yeah its MW from the homicide squad we got a call an anonymous tip off yeah this dude was involved in this crime we're checking it out and following this up yeah I managed to get some stuff to catch him his made a big mistake he slipped up what a silly man I've got him now won't be long now we can finish this up soon."

      Mistakes can happen anytime anywhere sometimes you don't even know or remember if you made a mistake the human mind at times for some can choose not to remember or know everything depending on the person. They might think they are smart however there just might be someone else who is much smarter than them. We learn from our mistakes and try not to repeat them learning and becoming a better person and becoming better at something. Some people choose to do the wrong things in life and their mistakes they might not be able to undo them its too late they are already screwed and no matter what they say or do they cannot get out of it no matter how much money they have, no matter how many spies they hire, no matter who they choose to go threaten, no matter how many guns they might own and no matter where they hide.

      Double check/cross check all information/things.

      Focus, concentrate and pay attention.

      Don't do stupid and bad thingS.

      Chapter 10: Dealing With Addictions

      Dealing With Addictions

      So many people out there in the world are addicted to something whether its drugs, alcohol, gambling or other kinds of addictions. Either they became that way through someone influencing them or they chose to become that way on their own. Other times people grow up with it in their homes people they live with are addicts and because they've seen it in their lives they've also become that way. And also some other people deny that they have a problem and choose to ignore it and carry on and it becomes worse.

      Dealing with addictions can be a hard thing to do facing the reality that you do have a problem and you do need to do something about it. People can be scared and afraid of speaking up saying something is wrong with me and they can be shy or scared to talk about it. Some people can wait and pretend that there's nothing wrong with them but then they become sick and are forced to go do something.

      Confronting someone about their addiction problem is hard but if they are family or a friend then you want to be their and support them through this hard times. Having people to talk to it is helpful and also being there to listen to someone hearing about how they feel giving friendly and helpful ideas to make them feel better. Some people may not like being confronted but if you really care about them they need to hear it because if they have no one else to turn to you should be there for them.

      When you dealing with people who have addictions you need to be careful with how you say things so they don't feel bad about themselves. Use inspiring and encouraging words when you're talking to them and don't look down on them or do things to discourage them. When they heal and get better and things are looking much better for them they will thank you for that even though at the time СКАЧАТЬ