A Smart Girl's Guide: Drama, Rumors & Secrets. Nancy Holyoke

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       Our motto is: Welcome.

       Threats are not cool.

       We’re like everyone else.

       Difference is fine.

       “b” rules

      We think alike.

       Our motto is: Keep out!

       Break a rule, you get punished.

       We’re better than everyone else.

       If you’re different, we laugh.

      If you checked all a’s, your group doesn’t have membership dues.

       Friendship is freely given because you all like one another. Each girl feels

       like she can be herself.

      If you checked mostly b’s, a girl gives a lot to belong to your group.

       Your days are shaped by your friends’ expectations. You can’t express

       yourself without getting criticized. You can’t make new friends freely.

       Worse, you’re learning to treat kids outside the group as if they’re worth

       less than you are. It’s a high price to pay for friendships that don’t make

       you feel good.