Always in the Kitchen at Parties: Simple Tools for Instant Confidence. Leil Lowndes

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      First published in the UK by HarperElement 2006

      © Leil Lowndes 2005

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      contents

       Cover

       Title Page

Copyright

Preface

Section I: A Word to the Shy …

Don’t Be an Avoidance Junkie

SHYBUSTER 1 Go Cold Turkey on the Small Stuff

Don’t Expect a Miracle (Today at Least!)

Welcome

SHYBUSTER 2 Eat the Peaches at Your Own Pace

The Confidence Warm-up

SHYBUSTER 3 Wake Up Like a Whacko

Section II: Why Am I Shy?

Take the ‘Cot Test’ to See if You Were Born Shy

SHYBUSTER 4 Ask Them if You Freaked Out

Did I ‘Catch’ a Dose of Shyness?

SHYBUSTER 5 Rummage Through Your Relatives

SHYBUSTER 6 Did Shyness Rub Off On You?

Was it Bullies in Bygone Days?

SHYBUSTER 7 Replay the Early Show

It Was All Mum and Dad’s Fault

SHYBUSTER 8 Don’t Baby Your Baby

So Who Ya Gonna Blame?

Section III: Dealing with People Until Your Shyness Is Gone

Should I Tell People I’m Shy?

SHYBUSTER 9 Why Tell Strangers?

Labels Are Lethal

SHYBUSTER 10 Don’t Burn Yourself with the ‘Shy’ Branding Iron

Tell the Truth, the Half-truth, and Nothing But the Half-truth

       SHYBUSTER 11 I’m Shy, So What?

       Section IV: What People Really Think of You

       Can People Tell I’m Shy?

       SHYBUSTER 12 Be Shy on the Sly

       Take Off Your Mud-coloured Spectacles

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