The Art of Living Chinese Proverbs and Wisdom. Hong Yingming
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Название: The Art of Living Chinese Proverbs and Wisdom

Автор: Hong Yingming

Издательство: Ingram

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       32. Dwell humbly to know the perils of ascent, live in darkness to know the dangers of light; keep still to know the fatigue of activity, nurture silence to know the agitation of verbosity.

      There is a proverb that says: “The participant is puzzled; the onlooker is clear.” Situated at a height there is, of course, the grandeur of looking down upon the world but there is also the misery of “the unbearable cold of high places,” the loneliness at the top. It is just that it is difficult to detect the danger you are in as you climb upwards. By contrast, those below can clearly see the towering mountain mass above them. It is only in tranquility that you can comprehend the weariness of hectic scheming; only in silence that you can, from a contrasting standpoint, better grasp the agitation of ceaseless chatter. Changed circumstances bring a different view. If we can observe life from a different point of view, we can become more awake and aware.

       33. Jettison the attractions of wealth and achievement and you may escape the mundane world; abandon the attractions of virtue and benevolence and only then may you enter the realm of light.

      Wealth, and glory, reputation and fame are the obsessions of the worldly. Ascetic practice is a means of tempering oneself to avoid the harm of a longing for wealth and fame. Originally there was no great harm in the enjoyment of wealth and fame. However, if one’s inner being becomes fixated upon them, one becomes their slave. What is the point of then speaking of freedom and detachment?

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       34. Fame and desire may not harm the heart absolutely, prejudice and illusion are the weevils that gnaw at the mind; licentious behavior is not necessarily an obstacle to the path of self-cultivation, self-assumed cleverness is the wall that stands in the way of virtue.

      Compared with the hounds of desire and fame, the unhealthy characteristics of prejudice of heart, perversions of thought, self-righteousness and self-assumed cleverness are much more harmful to the character. The Seven Emotions and Six Desires (The Six Desires are generally taken to be Color, Sound, Scent, Touch and Means; the Seven Emotions are Joy, Anger, Grief, Fear, Love, Hatred and Lust) are very apparent and thus easy to correct or overcome. However, inner prejudice and self-assumed cleverness can cloud the judgment and are much more difficult to detect. In the end they can hinder the growth of a proper wisdom and render clever people stupid.

       35. The mind of man is complex and the ways of the world rugged and steep. When you cannot get through you should know how to step back; when you can get through you should know the merit of giving way.

      It is impossible to predict the changing moods of man, and human relationships are complicated and ever changing. The path of life has never been smooth, it is full of twists and turns and changes of direction. Thus, when we encounter a pit that we cannot cross we should understand how to step back and not rush forward. We should understand how to slacken our pace and regard withdrawal as progress, so that we can see the situation clearly and avoid wasting time and effort. Similarly, when things are going well and the wind fills our sails, then that is the time for modesty and prudence and to politely give way so as to avoid disaster caused by faulty judgment born of over-confidence.

       36. In dealing with a rogue it is easy to be severe but difficult not to feel hatred; in dealing with a man of virtue it is easy to show respect but difficult to demonstrate the correct degree of politeness.

      It is not difficult when dealing with an uncultivated and ill-behaved rogue to adopt an attitude of severity, what is difficult is to empty the depths of one’s heart of loathing and treat him well and to help and educate him. When you discover the mistakes and faults in others, indulging in criticism and hatred rather than instructing or helping demonstrates a similar lack of moral responsibility. Most people feel respect for a deeply cultivated person of virtue and prestige, what is difficult is to treat them with true politeness. Over-politeness can descend into flattery and with that there comes an element of falsity.

       37. Better to be simple in mind rather than clever and retain some righteousness to repay heaven and earth; better to decline a life of luxury and delight in plain living and leave some purity for the world.

      The ancient saying goes: “Cleverness is the enemy of intelligence.” Man’s thought and wisdom are limited. Using a fistful of clever trickery to scheme for petty advantage may seem like getting the better of others but in the end one is damaged by one’s own prejudices to the harm of others and without benefit to self. Laozi said: “The Way is of and in the Natural World.” In life one should learn from all the sentient beings of the universe and indulge less in cunning trickery and more in a natural simplicity. This is the only means of retaining a nature that is both upright and honest, leaving a reputation for pure simplicity and gaining a life that is tranquil and harmonious.

       38. Devilry first seizes the mind, subdue the mind and the devils depart; to rid the mind of wayward thoughts, subdue one’s mood and they will no longer intrude.

      The Buddhist Garland Sutra says: “The mind is like a painter’s brush, capable of depicting everything that exists.” The devils and demons of life have their source in the evil thoughts of the mind. If the mind remains immovable, then the devils and demons from outside retreat without a battle. Dealing with ruthless and tyrannical barbarity is much the same. Controlling the violent unreason of the outside world first requires control of the thoughtless frivolity of one’s own heart. A mind like still water and as stable as a rock will keep out evil and defeat poison.

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       39. The instruction of disciples resembles the raising of daughters; one should emphasize severity in the control of their coming and going and prudence in their friendships. If they become close to someone undesirable it is tantamount to planting bad seed in a fertile field; it will be difficult to grow good rice.

      There is an ancient saying: “Stand next to vermilion and you will look red, stand next to ink and you will look black.” When someone is growing up and their habits are being formed and their characters molded, the demands on them should be severe and they should be strictly controlled, particularly in the matter of close friends who should be selected for their virtue. Otherwise, making friends with a pack of ne’er-do-wells will exert a bad influence and lead to the acquisition of bad habits, rather like planting bad seed in a fertile field. Once the wrong path is taken, education becomes extremely difficult.

       40. When the attractions of desire appear, take no joy in their lucky convenience or fortuitous advantage, to do so is to fall into an abyss; when the path of principle appears, do not be put off by its difficulty and step back, once that step is taken you will be separated by a mountain range.

      A proverb says: “Learning is like paddling a boat against the current, unless there is progress there is retreat; the heart is like riding a horse on a plain, easy to loose but difficult to rein in.” Man is prone to the Seven Emotions and Six Desires and finds it difficult to avoid the temptations of the outer world. Even its slightest infection makes it easy to let oneself go and enjoy it, thus taking step after step to corruption. Ascetic practice is like paddling a boat upstream, relax but a little and one loses a thousand miles. In the face of physical desire, one should increase vigilance and understand how to suppress desire; in the pursuit of truth one should concentrate all one’s efforts and not slacken them otherwise previous achievement will be thrown away and all will come to naught.

       41. Those of a generous disposition who treat themselves СКАЧАТЬ