If You Could See Me Now. Michael Mewshaw

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СКАЧАТЬ that it wasn't possible. She argued that what I had said to her adoptive mother, the way I had said it, showed that I knew things only a father could know. "Besides, your name's on my birth certificate. How do you account for that?"

      "I can't."

      "It's obvious, isn't it? My birth mother gave your name as the father. Are you accusing her of lying?"

      "I'm not accusing anybody of anything. She might have had reasons for doing it."

      "What reason?"

      "I'd just be guessing."

      "It sounds to me like you're just guessing you're not my father."

      "No, Amy, reread the file from the Children's Home Society. Right there on the first page, it refers to a boyfriend who came with your birth mother to California 'expecting to marry her and help her through her pregnancy.'That's me."

      Amy paused before bombarding me with anguished questions. I can understand the ambivalence of an adopted child who is simultaneously anxious to reunite with her biological parents and wary about meeting the people who abandoned her. I can also appreciate the ambivalence of birth parents who both want and are afraid to be found. But the depth of my own ambivalence caught me off guard.While I felt I'd like to be honest and help Amy, I realized suddenly that I couldn't do it without humiliating myself.

      "Was my mother pregnant when you started dating her?"Amy asked.

      "No."

      "Then how can you be sure you're not my father?"

      "Believe me, there was a time when I wished nothing more than that you were my daughter. But you're not."

      "You haven't said why you're so sure."

      As a novelist, you're taught to value subtlety and implication, but there are times when only a blunt statement of fact will serve."I didn't have intercourse with your mother until months after I knew she was pregnant."

      "And you knew because—"

      "Because she told me."

      "And she told you who the father was?"

      "Yeah, she told me that too."

      Amy reacted not so much with incredulity as with incomprehension."How did all this happen?"

      The question admitted of no easy answer. Did she mean how did her mother get pregnant? Or how did I come to be in California with her? Amy maintained that she'd like to know both.

      "She was dating another guy," I said. "They had a long-standing relationship. It went back years before I began going out with her."

      "Why did you stay with her?"

      Out of the volumes I might have spoken, I distilled a one-line synopsis."I loved her."

      "You loved her even after she got pregnant by another guy?"

      "Yes, I was crazy about her." I chuckled and tried to lighten the mood."Maybe I was just plain crazy."

      "Why didn't you two get married?"

      "I was willing. But as you must have seen in the 'nonidentifying information,' she had expectations, plans."

      "Is that why she didn't marry my birth father?"

      "She said she didn't love him. She said she loved me. But it must have been more complicated than that."

      "What I don't understand is why she told either of you she was pregnant.Why didn't she have an abortion?"

      "It was illegal back then."

      "But with money and connections, she could have had one.Wouldn't you have preferred that?"

      "I'm a Catholic."

      "So you're against abortion in all cases?"

      "I don't know about all cases.This was the only one I was involved in, and I wanted to handle it in a way that left us a chance afterward. I didn't realize until later how much I had deluded myself."

      "About what?"

      "There really wasn't much of a chance for us."

      "But you gave me a chance,"Amy said."I'm grateful for that. I guess I've got you to thank for being born."

      "I played a very small part. It was far harder on your mother. It was agonizing for her to carry you, then give you up. She's the one who deserves your gratitude."

      "I'd like to have the chance to thank her personally. But I've got to say, she strikes me as one screwed-up woman."

      "She was confused back then. I wouldn't call her screwed up. Even the file points out that she had definite ideas about what she wanted to do with her life."

      "I'm not convinced," Amy said. "I mean, she says she loves you, but she sleeps with somebody else. She gets pregnant but won't marry either of you.Then there's the third man that offered to marry her.Where does he fit in? Why did she tell him she was pregnant?"

      "I never knew about him before."

      "She was full of surprises,wasn't she? Is that what attracted you to her?"

      I conceded that I would have settled for fewer surprises.

      "Then what was her great appeal?" Amy asked. "Tell me about my mother."

      "I'd rather let her tell you about herself."

      "Where is she? How can I reach her?"

      I hesitated, unable to guess whether the truth would do more harm than good. Although I hadn't spoken to Amy's birth mother in over thirty years, I feared that she wouldn't welcome contact with her daughter. I feared that both of them might emerge from any meeting bruised and resentful. I also had some residual anger and hurt of my own, and I didn't care to inflict it on anybody. But as I tried to unpack my motives, I couldn't make up my mind which would hurt less—for Amy to meet her birth mother or to remain in the dark.And what would be less hurtful to the woman I used to love—being reunited with her daughter or remaining in ignorance?

      Only in retrospect did it occur to me that I didn't need to make any choice. Never married to her mother and with no biological link to Amy, I was under no obligation. I could have hung up, cutting the connection. Fathers did it to their own children every day—disappeared without a backward glance. No support, no explanation. In a phrase I've never understood, they "got over it." Did that mean they forgot? Or just no longer cared?

      Whatever the answer, I couldn't do that to Amy any more than I had to her mother. Call it a compulsion, call it an unhealthy curiosity, call it a persistent wish that someone would do the same for me. I'll admit to all of these.

      Yet for a moment I did entertain the idea that I could simply give Amy a name and tell her to keep her eyes on the newspapers, cable television and magazine covers. Sooner or later she'd see her birth mother. In the end, though, I decided that she deserved to hear the whole story. As Mrs. Woodson put it, no third party, regardless of how well intentioned, has the right to contract away a person's life history. So I recounted it piecemeal СКАЧАТЬ