Make a Fortune Selling to Women. Connie Podesta
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Название: Make a Fortune Selling to Women

Автор: Connie Podesta

Издательство: Ingram

Жанр: Маркетинг, PR, реклама

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isbn: 9781613391648

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СКАЧАТЬ “If I stop worrying, nothing will get done around here.”

      (Sound familiar?)

      This worry and guilt springs from a belief that many women hold: it is my responsibility to make sure everyone else is happy, healthy, and successful. At the least, she might make it happen by working just a little harder.

      Men tend to live in the PRESENT: what is going on now? How do I feel now? What can we do about it now? Women live mostly in the past and the future. The past is GUILT: what we shoulda, woulda, coulda done differently. The future is WORRY: what might happen, could happen, probably will happen.

      Most men are far better at compartmentalizing and tuning in or out, depending on what they view as necessary or important—what requires their immediate attention. Women view the world more holistically. It’s more than just multitasking. It’s multi-seeing, multi-hearing, multi-doing, and multi-fixing all at once. Almost everything we see and hear reminds us of ten other things, which remind us of ten other things each. So the word busy doesn’t begin to describe life through a woman’s eyes, whether the busyness is self-imposed or not.

      What does all of this have to do with sales? Everything! Because she has so many things she needs to do, or thinks she wants to do, your female customer doesn’t have time to waste (unless she is window-shopping, which is an entirely different experience in itself—but she won’t involve you in that).

       Many salespeople make the mistake of focusing more on productivity with their male shoppers than with their female shoppers. The truth is, women don’t want to waste their time any more than men.

      It is true that when men are looking to buy, they go in, find what they want at the price they want to pay, and get on with their lives. Therefore, salespeople know right from the beginning that men have little patience with saying about making the buying process and would rather be somewhere else— anywhere else. As a result, the astute salesperson gets right to the point with the guys and moves quickly to the bottom line, unless there is an indication that the man prefers to take a bit more time.

      Women, on the other hand, usually take far longer to make a purchase. They ask more questions and spend more time weighing their options than men. Salespeople often misinterpret this to mean that a woman is “just shopping around,” has all the time in the world, or is simply indecisive. As a result, the salesperson will often tune out the woman who appears to be just looking, and perhaps even wander off and move on to someone else.

      Be very careful making any of those assumptions, because you could be way off base. She probably is taking longer because she sees the purchase as part of a bigger picture, and she wants to make sure it is going to fit in with whatever else is going on in her life. The sound system she’s buying needs to offer great performance, portability for her daughter’s college move next year, and adaptability for new technology two years from now, and it has to match the living room decor. Thinking through all those things at once just takes a little time!

      Even though a female customer may take longer to close or commit, she still doesn’t want to waste any of the time she has allotted for the purchase—she has just allotted more time to begin with than a man would. But that doesn’t mean she wants to be ignored, get passed from salesperson to salesperson, or repeat herself to a salesperson who wasn’t paying attention the first time.

       Never underestimate how precious a commodity time is for a woman. KNOW THIS: anything you can do to help her find the right solution to fit her needs will be appreciated. Anything you do to derail the process will be noted and chalked up against you.

      This is true even though at first she may appear more social than productive and decisive. She is trying to assess whether she likes you, trusts you, and wants to do business with you. This is part of her personal and professional examination of you and the situation at hand. Once she has decided that you are the right person to do the job, she will probably do an about-face and get down to business. Let her take the lead. She’ll let you know when she is ready to start buying. You just concentrate on being personable, professional, and productive.

       #4: SHE WANTS TO BE PART OF THE PROCESS

      For most women, a purchase isn’t just a transaction in which she pays money for goods or services. It’s an ENTRY into a relationship—with you, your store, your product or service, and with your company. Because business is PERSONAL with women, if they choose your service, it’s often because they are comfortable supporting your business, representing your brand, or becoming part of the circle of your customers.

      Women are aware that their purchasing decisions reflect back on them and affect the world they live in; this is just part of the multifaceted approach women take to buying.

      Maybe it’s because of this awareness that women feel the need to take responsibility for their buying decisions—they don’t want to just walk in and buy something (“In and out,” a man might say). They want to weigh the options, learn the differences between them, and decide what’s best.

      They want the information that will help them make good decisions. Women hate to waste time making purchases they will regret, not use, or have to return later. They want to know what makes one brand or product better than another, or why you think one will be better, and whether it really is or not.

       In short, women want to be a part of the process and have a good interaction with the salesperson.

      Now don’t get me wrong—men want to be PART OF THE PROCESS too, but most salespeople wouldn’t dream of excluding a man from a conversation about his purchase. Again there is irony here. Men talk less in the average buying situation, ask fewer questions, and are more anxious to just leave and get on with it than women, yet men are generally included in each step of the process whether they want to be or not.

      Women—who tell their whole story, ask tons of questions, and have often done far more research on the product—can find themselves excluded from some conversations because the salesperson has decided that the information is too difficult, tedious, technical, or uninteresting to share with them.

      Beware of making assumptions about what a woman wants to know and learn about your product or service, because if she feels left out of the process, you will probably lose the sale.

      Being part of the process means more than just being engaged in all decisions and understanding the variables. It also means being heard, a point we are going to discuss a great deal throughout this book. It means that when a woman wants to explain why she wants something or how it needs to fit into her life, you listen, even if you think you already have the information you need. (If she’s still talking, there’s a good chance you can still learn something to your advantage about what she wants and why. Pay attention!)

       When she asks a question, answer it honestly, СКАЧАТЬ