Parisian Tails. Stephen Hayes

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      Parisian Tails

      by Stephen Hayes

      Parisian Tails

      Artwork and original images provided by Kim Hayes

      Published 2016 by Stephen Hayes, Australia.

      Formatted and Distributed by www.ebookit.com

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      Copyright © 2016 Stephen Hayes.

      The moral right of the author has been asserted.

      All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted by any person or entity (including Google, Amazon, Apple or similar organisations) in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, scanning or by any information storage and retrieval system, without prior permission in writing from the publisher.

      ISBN: 978-0-9944590-2-2

      Dedication

      This book is especially dedicated to my beautiful companion Paris, but it is also dedicated to everyone who knew her in life and have their own fond memories of her to cherish.

      Foreword

      Dogs in this family generally don’t last very long. There have been a few over Stephen’s early childhood but they somehow managed to be given away to better families or they just shot through on us. So it was unexpected that Stephen went ahead and applied for a seeing-eye dog and kept his own counsel without ever revealing that one was in the wings.

      Pleased as I was that he would have more mobility in the future, especially with university being a challenge in its own right where a guide-dog would be a godsend. But as with all things comes responsibility and Stephen at first assured us all that a dog would not be an issue for us as he would be the master and carer and we were to keep our distance— lest we corrupt it.

      We were told a golden Labrador named Paris (from a P-litter) had been selected and Stephen would have to do intense training and do live-in’s with Paris. That was fine, not a problem from our end.

      At my first meeting with Paris—well, that didn’t go over too well. As soon as she crossed the threshold, she saw me and barked ferociously at me while being restrained by her SEDA handler. “That’d be right”, I said, “every female in the family always barks at me sooner or later in this household and this female ain’t any different”.

      So Paris came to stay, and such was her nature we all fell head-over-heels for her. It wasn’t enough that she was the ‘hairy-nose’ of the family but she could be very bossy in gaining attention from anyone; especially round the dinner table where she would stare down the sighted patrons and resting her drooling head on their laps while ignoring the blindies in desperate hope of gaining a morsel of food from their plates—and she often did on many occasions.

      Paris had style; she had intelligence; she had a blessed way of ignoring you if it interrupted whatever she was doing. Paris was just Paris. Total love to all around her. She was unconditional and doted on the family just as much as we doted on her. She gave safety and companionship to Stephen, made best friends with his siblings Alysha and Molly and left me to pick up the crap. Sounds like a fair exchange of responsibilities.

      We knew that age was catching up with her and also knew that she would someday become too ill to go on. What we didn’t expect was it to be so soon. Her lethargy at the park was a tell-tale sign that something was not quite right with her and her ‘menopausal’ behaviour was becoming erratic. And by April 2016, Stephen became a man and made a man’s decision to put Paris to bed for the last time. Such is the loss of Paris that she effected everyone that loved her because Paris is love.

      —Dad, 2016

      Introduction

      Most people have had a pet at some stage in their lives, and in many cases, that pet would have been a dog. In some of those cases, that pet would have felt less like a pet and more like a member of the family, and even a companion. This is the story of Paris, my seeing-eye dog and best friend for nine years, who was taken from us before her time in 2016. She was truly an exceptional girl who laid her paw on the hearts of everyone she met.

      We have ways of recording sound and sight into a form that others can observe through audio and video. I wish it were possible to record other things, such as touch, smell, and even thoughts themselves during certain experiences. The brain will do its best to recall the most memorable (not necessarily the best memories), but the recall won't be perfect. Over time, these memories will fade as they are replaced with new experiences.

      This book is my attempt to hold onto and share as much of Paris's memory as I can. We have lots of photographs, only some of which are included in this book; as well as plenty of video footage, capturing many of her cutest moments, though missing out on plenty as well. It isn't enough for me; I would like to convey, even if it requires readers to use their imagination, just how Paris felt to the touch, and precisely how it felt to know her for nine good years.

      2007: Paris at work ever alert, or is she just looking for some mischief?

      The Process

      As a teenager, I never thought I would get a seeing-eye dog. I always believed that I could get around quite fine with a white-cane, and that having a dog would be too much upkeep. It wasn't until the age of eighteen, while I was doing orientation and mobility (O&M) training at a TAFE institution where I would be studying the following year (so that I could get around the place independently), that I was enlightened regarding the benefits of having a seeing-eye dog.

      Of those, the two main ones were the increased mobility, and the companionship. With a seeing-eye dog, it wouldn't be necessary to run my cane along walls or surfaces with edges to find my way, not if the dog knew where we were going. It wouldn't be a big issue at TAFE, but it may become one the following year, in 2007 when I would start university. As for the companionship, I took it on face-value that there may be some, but I under-estimated just how attached I would become to my first seeing-eye dog.

      There was also the extra perk that guys with dogs get a little extra attention from girls, and I won't tell a lie in this story. Over the following months, as I considered whether or not to get a dog, that thought was a factor in my decision-making. I can't recall that ever happening, though, if anyone might have given me more attention because of my seeing-eye dog they inevitably were more interested in the dog than the person beside it.

      I sat on it for perhaps seven or eight months before deciding that I would take the plunge and apply for a seeing-eye dog, even going as far as making notes for things to ask when I made the phone call, in case I got tongue-tied. It turned out to be very easy, though; I just had to answer some questions, sign a couple of documents, and I was immediately put on the waiting list.

      A few months later, in July 2006 it would have been, I received a visit from one of the dog trainers at Seeing-Eye Dogs Australia (SEDA). For the sake of this book, let's call him Trajan; he was the same person who introduced me to the idea of getting a dog in the first place. (Trajan was the O&M instructor СКАЧАТЬ