Emotional Rollercoaster: A Journey Through the Science of Feelings. Claudia Hammond
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Название: Emotional Rollercoaster: A Journey Through the Science of Feelings

Автор: Claudia Hammond

Издательство: HarperCollins

Жанр: Общая психология

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isbn: 9780007375301

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      In eighteenth-century France collective tears were seen as enjoyable and compassion was expected from others, but by the nineteenth century suppressing tears was seen as evidence of self-control. A social dictionary of the time describes tears as ‘water too often ill-employed, for it remedies nothing’. When attitudes towards crying have been researched in more recent times, findings using questionnaires contrast sharply with the results of experiments held in the laboratory. In questionnaires women tend to say that they feel sympathetic when someone else cries, whereas men report feeling awkward or even manipulated. Women in particular seem to be accused of ‘turning on the waterworks’. Men report believing that it is inappropriate or a sign of weakness for a man to cry, but in laboratory experiments where people are actually crying the results are rather different. When a man cries after watching a sad film, both men and women consider him to be more likeable, while the weeping women are disliked for their tears. So although men may not like the idea of other men crying, when actually faced with it, they do not judge them. Perhaps men consider that if a man is crying his feelings must be profound and so he should taken seriously.

      If crying succeeds in communicating our feelings then once again sadness is revealing that it does have a purpose. The family seeing off the woman with the linen jacket in my airport story, eyes wet with tears, would be signalling their sorrow. While that parting would be reflected in their brain chemistry, they would in fact be strengthening their bonds with the woman who was leaving. She would be able to see how much they cared, in a way they probably wouldn’t usually show her.

      Although we don’t tend to think of it as a pleasant emotion, sadness is probably one that we are stuck with and although the value of sadness is hard to see, particularly when we are feeling sad, it might be an emotion with wisdom after all; an emotion which forces us to slow down, consider our plans and maybe change them. Sadness provides a light and shade in our emotional life. At the same time the outward signs of sadness like a down-turned mouth and that most potent but still mysterious communicator of sadness, tears, can bring us closer to those around us by signalling to them that we need them.

       Three Disgust

      The audience sits in silence in a converted warehouse in East London. Although it’s a cold November night, waiters further up Brick Lane stand outside on the street, trying to persuade passers-by to choose their particular curry house. But in the warehouse eating is the last thing anyone would want to do. Out of 2,000 people who tried, these are the lucky 300 who succeeded in getting tickets. A few watch anxiously as a man comes onto the stage wearing the curious combination of a black Fedora hat and surgeon’s scrubs. His name is Professor Gunther von Hagens. After a short introduction his assistants wheel in a long, sheet-covered lump on a trolley. The professor draws back the white cover to reveal the dead body of a man with skin which looks as though it could be made from plastic. The professor walks over to a side-table on which is a silver tray lined up with implements, ranging in size from the smallest knife to a hacksaw. He selects a scalpel, turns back to the body, leans over the man’s breastbone and puts the blade into contact with the skin. He presses down firmly and slices down through the skin. The audience wince as one, imagining the knife cutting through their own flesh. Surprisingly there’s no blood, just a slow trickle of thick orange liquid, like the orange congealed fat left behind in a roasting tin. This is the first public autopsy to be held in Britain for 170 years and in addition to the live audience, millions are watching on television. Professor von Hagens explains that he’s making what’s known as a Y-cut, slicing across the chest and down the centre of the torso. The man died at the age of seventy-two after drinking two bottles of whisky a day and smoking heavily for years. As the chest is opened the skin is peeled back on either side of the cut to reveal layers of fat. The heart and lungs are extracted and carefully placed in silver dishes lined up on the side-table. Like waiters at a banquet, assistants stand in a line nearby, ready to pass a dish when required for the next body part. Eventually just one dish remains empty. It’s time for the brain.

      An assistant holds the man’s head still, while von Hagens carefully cuts around the head from ear to ear, loosens the skin enough to slide his hands in behind it and peels back the skin to expose the skull. Taking a hacksaw, he begins grinding his way into the skull, explaining to the audience, as he cuts, that due to the skull’s three layers, this can take some time. When he hears a change in tone he knows he’s through. ‘I am about to take the brain out,’ he calmly announces, as though it’s a cookery demonstration. The brain comes away surprisingly easily. He simply picks it up and lifts it out without resistance, like a walnut out of a shell. Nobody in the audience speaks. Their brows furrow and they lift their hands up to their faces, covering their mouths and half-masking their eyes. They are experiencing disgust.

      

      Although it is such a basic emotion, disgust is often forgotten; if people are asked to list some common emotions it’s usually a long time before disgust is suggested. Yet of all the psychologists I’ve met who research different emotions, those who study disgust seem to do so with a particular passion. They told me that they have learned one thing, however, and the same applies here: however fascinating disgust might be, if you want to enjoy your food it’s not a good idea to read about disgust while you are eating.

      There is one way in which disgust differs from many other emotions: feelings of disgust always have a clear cause. You can’t wake up one day feeling generally disgusted in the same way that you might feel generally sad. There has to be an object of your disgust and, as we’ll see, it’s these objects which provide clues as to the purpose of this strange emotion.

      

      The loos at the Glastonbury Festival are infamous. By the end of the weekend after thousands of people have used them, they get very full. The story goes that every year, on the last day of the festival the same trick is played on one very unlucky toilet user. A group of people wait until a man has locked himself into the cubicle and then they tip over the entire box so that the unfortunate inhabitant is trapped lying in the contents of the now emptied toilet.

      Just hearing about this story may well provoke a physical response in you. It certainly would for the victim of the trick. Disgust is a particularly visceral emotion. It can make you shudder, salivate, feel physically sick, retch and, at its most extreme, vomit. The facial expression for disgust is particularly distinctive: the nostrils narrow, the upper lip rises high, the lower lip lifts and protrudes slightly, the cheeks rise, the brows lower creating crow’s feet beside the eyes and the sides of the nostrils ascend, causing the sides of the nose to wrinkle. When a person is disgusted other people can tell exactly what they are feeling from those sneering lips. This is the disgust face and it appears very early in life.

      how we learn to feel disgusted

      Disgust is one of the earliest emotions that we experience. From birth, babies show disgust at bitter tastes and as Charles Darwin noted the expression of disgust gradually becomes more frequent. He became fascinated with the development of emotions after the birth of his first child and decided to document his son’s emotional expressions. More than thirty years later he wrote a book on the subject, a book which is often overlooked today. Darwin clearly observed disgust on his son’s face at the age of five months – on one occasion in response to cold water, on another at a piece of ripe cherry. ‘This was shown by the lips and whole mouth assuming a shape which allowed the contents to run or fall quickly out; the tongue being likewise protruded. These movements were accompanied by a little shudder. It was all the more comical, as I doubt whether the child felt real disgust – the eyes and forehead expressing much surprise and consideration.’

      Whether or not babies do feel the emotion in the same way as adults, by the age of three toddlers have learnt СКАЧАТЬ