The perfect. Veronik

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СКАЧАТЬ from serenity. This calm can give us only one a real connection without tension and often quarrels. And as we have decided to refuse statements let us continue with:

      – “When people quarrel have love between each other” – not is so, wrong statement. If you really love someone you like his actions and behavior therefore you do not have to make scandals. People are prone to love but true love is unique and special. She differs from the love that we feel to familiar people around us, family or colleagues from work. When we looking for a partner become aware we can’t really love two people. If we feel the same to different two people none of them are our soul mate. Once recognized her nothing else can compare with these feelings nothing can spoil this. Because when we really are in love and ask right questions to ourselves everyone answers are:

      – Yes.

      – Does he is gentle?

      – Does he love animals?

      – Does he like the sea?

      – Does he eat sweet cake?

      – Does he makes something romantic about me?

      When we have similar characters it is easy to answer with Yes. When we are different the answer will be No probably.-What about a vacation? To go with a completely different person will need somebody of us to make a compromises. You plans a vacation to relax, to break from the boring, monotony and supposed to be enjoy. An excursion with ours opposite would not be a pleasure instead this will be a nightmare and a lot more tiring than work environment.

      – Did you happen to go somewhere with your beloved and instead of resting to been nervous in more of time? – If that so, you have a problem. All of us act differently in given situations. Someone resigns with the differences for money and a good life. Others for his fear of loneliness.

      – Is it worth it? Are you ready to deny from your true love? Will you be able to replace the delight that would you be have by the right partner? Are you ready to walk a way accompanied with sadness, nerves and disappointments to do not be alone or poor? Don’t need to give up of serenity and spiritual freedom only because you are frightened of lonely or for material benefits. Be yourself and seek love because this unique feel can’t be replaced with nothing. May be now I dissuaded you from your self-destructive actions and I ruined your fake ties. Let thinking real:

      – What are you living for?

      – What do you want?

      – What do you dream of? That which left in our memory during life are the emotions. Moments with people:

      – The first time when I drove a bicycle with my brother. A great weekend for fish with my parents. Skiing weekend with my friends last winter. – Ask yourself:

      – Do you remember when you bought something? -don’t talk about the last few weeks.

      – Do you remember before five years ago to had French branded bag or Swiss clock? – No, you don’t even think about it. But in your mind somewhere you remember for walked in the park with your kids. This is important. The moments with people and communication. When it’s easy we feel good and happy. If we have thousands of scandals with someone the thought of bad relations remains in our minds. Well as you want to complain and be constantly tormented of your personal life OK. Choice is yours. But if you want to meet true love and ready for this just be happy at that you are awake up today. When your face make a stupid smile after look in eyes of beloved is irreplaceable. Be sincere with yourself and give answer on your questions. Don’t started meaningless and tiring relationships. Focus on that you want and it will come to you. Not waste time in self-deception. Increasingly we seeing people try to cope with negativity and dissatisfaction. We can’t be in good soul state if constantly is necessary to suppress our inner self. For this it is important to unravel the inconsistencies in words “Opposites is attract”. If you read carefully and answered own questions already you know that opposites characters not stay together for a long time. Are we looking for something for once -Yes. – But for serious and promising relationships the difference destroy the good relations.

      What we are looking for?

      The most important are our correct judgment and clarity in the search. We need to know our requirements exactly. To know what we want in relationship. To start we need to understand ourselves.

      – Am I looking for a serious relation?

      – Something temporary to not be alone?

      – Maybe something for once? – That’s the three initial questions us which need we start. After responded on them we can act in the right direction. These three types of links are different routes in which we can go in any time. Answers lead us to different partners. I will mention again that for less an hour we can know what wants the other and whether we are suitable for each other. Often answer to the previous questions is:

      – I don’t know – It sounds so hesitant but at the same time used frequently. In many times we wonder what we really want. We are fluctuating and wait. We lose time which can use better for find a perfect partner. It’s the time for the truth.The more questions who we ask ourselves help us to know better who we are. What is our purpose, desires and what we are looking for. To know yourself is hard but it gives you the advantage to be better in decision-making. We make choices in all of time. Constantly making decisions:

      – How I go to the work? – By metro or by bus.

      – Do I get out with sport shoes or elegante boots who I bought yesterday? – Often we choose in the store:

      – What cheese we take? – Yellow, white, cheap, expensive, small piece or big piece. We make many choices that we don’t see because they are part of our daily routine. The choice with who to have we a relationship is more serious and requires more attention. For that we need to make it easier with the exact and specific requirements. To do not wander aimlessly and complaining about failed relations need to decide what we looking for. Accordingly we are looking for a washing machine we will not go into a grocery store. Our action way needs to change. If looking for athlete you will go to different sports events. If you prefer elegant, peaceful person will not rush to the first disco and you’ll be visiting theater or gallery. Often the links that we create are with people similar to us. We meet them in the workplace, in the urban transport, in the park. The complicated in relationships is our own behavior. We don’t know what we are looking for and throwing into something we aren’t satisfied. After the unsuccessful experience we say:

      – I don’t want this – Yes, but real: -What do I want? – The solution is front of us. Beginning to reject different types of connections we need of much time to feel what we are looking for. The easiest way is to answer the questions:

      – What do I need?

      – What kind of relation will make me happy?

      – Do I want to be a happy?

      – Do I should hurt myself with inappropriate partners? – It’s time for the first step in finding the right direction. The first step is to know who you are. Asking yourself what you like to do:

      – Do I love to do sports? Do I like to read books? Do I like to go to a picnic? Do I like to swimming? What is my favorite dish? – There are many questions to help you СКАЧАТЬ