Schema Therapy for Borderline Personality Disorder. Hannie van Genderen
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СКАЧАТЬ and behaviors (see Appendix A: ST for patients). For a more in‐depth explanation, the patient can refer to a number of relevant chapters in Breaking Negative Thinking Patterns (Jacob, van Genderen, & Seebauer, 2015) or Reinventing Your Life (Young & Klosko, 1994).

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      Most BPD patients find the experience of learning about the borderline model enlightening. It offers a clear explanation as to why they experience sudden mood swings and have so little control over their behavior (see Chapter 9, “A Simultaneous Chess Play in a Pinball Machine”). It also offers them the hope that change is possible and that they are not doomed to a life filled with uncontrolled behavior and mood swings.

      If the patient finds that this model is not appropriate to her situation, there are usually three possibilities: one is that the individual simply does not have BPD. The second one is that important modes are overlooked, in which case these have to be added to the patient's mode conceptualization. The last possibility is that despite the person having BPD, there is also a very strong protector mode at work. Because of this protector, everything the therapist says is considered to be dubious and unreliable. A variant of this is when the patient recognizes parts of the model, but denies other parts, for example, the punitive parent mode, as acknowledging that mode is yet too frightening. If the latter is the case, the therapist must take more time in building a trusting relationship with the patient and not dwell upon attempting to convince the patient of the schema model.

       Crisis management

      Crisis management can be skipped when there is no crisis present at the beginning of the therapy. However, for BPD patients it is recommended to make a crisis management plan together with the patient and to relate this to the modes. Different modes can be active in different crises and might need different actions.

      The (short‐term) risks of a crisis should be discussed with the patient. The actual handling of a crisis is returned to later in the therapy in case it occurs. Should a crisis be present, it indeed requires the highest attention (see Chapter 8, “Crisis”).

       Treatment phase: therapeutic interventions with schema modes

       Learn to recognize when one of the modes is active

       Reassure, and gradually replace, the Detached Protector

       Empathize with and protect the Abandoned/Abused Child, to help the Abandoned/Abused Child to receive love, and to help this mode to emotionally process the memories of abuse, neglect, and abandonment

       Fight against, and expunge, the Punitive Parent

       Re‐channel the Angry and Impulsive Child to express emotions and needs appropriately and reaffirm child's basic rights

       Encourage the Happy Child to spend more time on enjoyable things

       Help patient to incorporate the Healthy Adult mode, modeled after the therapist

      The first phase of therapy aims at teaching patients to recognize their modes. One can also teach the patient to recognize her modes by a “mode guessing game” (see ST step by step 1.07). The therapist explains that he will play how the patient behaves when she is in a specific mode and invites her to guess which mode he was playing. Be aware that the patient doesn't get the impression that you intend to make fun of her. This exercise has the advantage that not only the tone of voice but also the nonverbal signals become clearer. After the demonstration they discuss how this mode can be recognized. After this the therapist can also invite the patient to play one of her modes. In this way the patient gets a better understanding of her modes. This is not to say that it is unnecessary to occasionally return to this point for a short “refresher course” in the mode model at a later stage of treatment. However, at a certain point (after about six sessions) the therapist must stop gathering information and giving explanations and move on to schema mode work. Many therapists find this an uncomfortable point in the therapy. One could describe this moment as similar to the fear of diving off the deep end, particularly when starting with a new technique (e.g., the experiential techniques). Do not hesitate but simply jump in! Of course, one can always turn to the peer supervision group and ask for advice.

       Structure of sessions during active treatment

      When the therapist is pretty sure which mode is talking, he states which mode he thinks is active. So, don't ask the patient to tell which mode is active, because in the first phase of treatment the patient is usually not able to tell you which mode, she is in. She is convinced that there is no mode and she answers “I am telling this.”

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