Gift and the Unity of Being. Antonio López M.
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Название: Gift and the Unity of Being

Автор: Antonio López M.

Издательство: Ingram

Жанр: Религия: прочее

Серия: Veritas

isbn: 9781630870416

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СКАЧАТЬ that calls every finite singular to be. The fruitful response is as much giving further (work, begetting) as it is personally responding to the destiny that the original giver prepares for everyone and that unfolds gradually through the historical existence of the person. Throughout this itinerary the person has constant negative and positive intimations of death. The negative encounters are all those instances in which the risk of giving meets an ungrateful rejection of the gift or a denial of further giving. But the risk of giving does not derive simply from possible negative outcomes. Giving always requires the detachment of the giver from the gift and the receiver so that they can be themselves and respond to the giver gratuitously. The giver’s detachment is not a withdrawal, but, endowed with the form of giving, is a waiting for the response to come and to do so gratuitously. The “risking” indicates the totality of the giving that respects the irreducible otherness of the gift and thus waits for a gratuitous response that may not come.

      The positive intimations of death can be perceived if we realize that death, beyond its meaning of biological extinction and interruption of the original giving, reminds the person of the gift of his own existence. Death reminds the receiver of the constant being allowed to be. In this regard, death reveals anew the truth of birth: finite gift’s ontogenic dependence on the source that begets the human being at every moment. One advantage of lived time is that it affords the possibility to see the unity of existence as a gift under the never-ending light of the mystery—even if most of the time this unity passes unnoticed. Perhaps more forcefully than birth itself, death discloses that life is a gift that calls for further giving, but a giving that in reality, since it is a response to the presence that calls, coincides with permitting oneself to be taken. Our contemporary culture holds up sudden death as the ideal way to die. Yet, while in some cases death may occur abruptly, normally speaking one is called to receive it, that is, to learn to give oneself over to the origin of one’s own existence. Through death, one is asked to give oneself over completely. This could seem an unacceptable expropriation if we lose sight of the fact that the logic of gift that sustains existence is one of love. In love, one wishes to give oneself over completely to the beloved. Death, of course, has the flavor of a punishment and threatens to be the last word on existence. Yet it also brings us to the truth of the gift: the complete entrusting of oneself to the paternal origin. If giving were not ultimately an allowing to be taken, an offering, it would be determined by a limited, self-imposed measure that, as has often been lamented, undoes the gift from within. The wealth of the gift is to give itself completely—a donation that can be described as utter poverty. In order to be true the gift has to be complete; it cannot admit any measure. This is also why previous, discrete moments of giving were perceived as true only when one abandoned oneself in the giving. Those moments also taught that to hand oneself over to the other, as in marriage, has the unexpected though desired fruit of being given back along with the one to whom one has entrusted oneself. This is why in dying, too, one permits oneself to be taken and hopes that this ultimate gift may be finally confirmed. In this regard, death encompasses both moments that must be viewed in and through the other: giving oneself and allowing oneself to be taken. Understanding death in this way, we discover a new sense of limit. Limit, or finitude, which after Christian revelation is no longer a sign of perfection, emerges not as an end and total solitude, but as relation with the paternal origin. If originary experience allowed us to see the gift-ness of the person and of what is present, we now need to ask how recognition of the original giver, and hence the unity with and difference from him, takes place.

      6. The Exigent Character of Life