Just Get Me Through This! - Revised and Updated. Deborah A. Cohen

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      INTRODUCTION

      I want to talk to you for a moment about Fudgsicles. “Fudgsicles? Are you crazy? I have a life-threatening disease and you want to talk to me about Fudgsicles?!?! Can’t you just help me get through this?”

      Yes, believe it or not, I do want to talk about Fudgsicles, as they actually may be very important in helping you get through the next six to nine months of your life. Here’s why.

      When I was recovering from my initial surgery, I was bombarded with advice from friends and family about books to read on cancer treatments, in order to be prepared to talk with surgeons, oncologists, and other specialists about the best course of treatment for my disease. This is the new world of health care, and I am the perfect model of the “patient activist.” I wanted to be involved in a true partnership with the doctors to make decisions about my own body and my own life. I was not going to sit there and simply be told what to do. Yet I found it wasn’t all that easy.

      When I visited my local bookstore to begin my process of becoming an informed patient, I almost passed out in the aisleway—from terror, not from my illness. The vast majority of books were harsh, clinical reference materials, written solely by doctors, chock-full of terrifying mortality statistics. They talked about how sick I was going to get, either from the disease or from the treatments to eradicate the disease, not how to manage the treatments and get well. The remainder were heroic biographies by cancer patients themselves—some survivors, some not—about their own courageous battles. No thanks, I have my own battle to contend with right here at home. I don’t need to read about anyone else’s right now.

      So, I threw away all those books, and started talking to people—doctors, nurses, survivors, whoever would talk to me—and it was amazing what I learned, what similar, consistent information started coming back to me regardless of the source. A flagship example? Before I went for my first chemotherapy treatment, I had three different people—one oncologist, one chemotherapy nurse, and one of the women in my support group who had been through the same treatment regimen—tell me that during the ten to fifteen minutes that the drug Adriamycin is being administered to me, I should suck on ice chips, Popsicles, or something cold. Why? Because one of the potential side effects of that particular drug is mouth and gum sores. But for some reason, sucking on something cold minimizes or even eradicates mouth sores.

      Now, where was that book, the book that contained all of that nitty-gritty, practical advice that would just get me through the next six months—the operating guide, the instruction manual, the “how to’s” of breast cancer? It didn’t exist. So, I started an information-gathering process, which I’ve presented here in a package called a book. It contains all those practical “tidbits” of advice gathered from every conceivable source—from breast surgeons, medical and radiation oncologists, and nurses at some of the world’s leading cancer centers; from health care consultants and medical literature; from nutritionists, hairdressers, dentists, and other personal-care professionals; from fellow patients and support groups; and even from plain old books. I personally sifted, sorted, and tested their advice, insights, anecdotes, and even their wives’ tales, then added my own perspective.

      So now the book exists, and you are reading it. We don’t know if or why sucking on Popsicles prevents mouth sores—it may be that just as the cold restricts blood flow, it restricts chemotherapy flow to the area—but it sure helps many, many women. And wouldn’t it make those potentially unpleasant, dark, scary moments just a bit more tolerable? I actually prefer Fudgsicles, please, but I was willing to do whatever it took to get me through treatment. But wait. There’s more than that to our discussion of Fudgsicles. This book is not only about advice, but about attitude as well. Fudgsicles bring us back to childhood, back to those carefree, breezy summer evenings when the highlight was sitting on the front porch with our best friend and guessing what time the ice cream man would turn the corner onto our street, ringing his bell and bringing a smile to the faces of all who awaited him. This book is also about rediscovering those slower, simpler moments of life, about recouping that positive attitude from childhood that each day promises something special and something new to be discovered, if only we take a minute to open our eyes and look.

      Breast cancer is an eye-opening, life-affirming experience. You may think it won’t change your life, that you’re tough, that you can just keep on going and functioning in the life-is-normal-as-possible СКАЧАТЬ