Moving Fostering Memoirs 2-Book Collection. Casey Watson

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      There was no plateau, when caring for Phoebe. At the end of an exhausting day when all I wanted to do was get through the mission of dinner, bath and bed so that I could enter a ‘nothingness’ zone, Phoebe would crank things up a level. That evening I sat beside her in the upstairs hallway, reading the next chapter of The Giraffe and the Pelly and Me, sincerely hoping that she had reached a ceiling and there would be no more shocks in store.

      Every now and again Phoebe leaned sideways to examine the pictures, her head brushing my shoulder. I wasn’t sure if it was her way of asking for affection but I took the opportunity anyway, reaching out to stroke her head. She jerked away.

      ‘Don’t do that – I hate you.’

      Reading bedtime stories was often the highlight of my day as a foster carer. With many of my placements, I was the first person ever to have read to the child before they went to sleep. It’s funny how quickly children embrace story time as part of a regular routine to help them unwind. Usually I enjoyed it as much as they did, particularly as it marked the end of my working day.

      Story time with Phoebe was a whole different experience. Before I had finished one sentence she started repeating me so that by the end of the last page my head was throbbing and my patience running thin.

      ‘Again!’ she shouted, as I snapped the book shut. I was amazed she had enjoyed it but my nerves were by then so frayed that I couldn’t face another chapter.

      ‘Not tonight – bedtime now but we’ll read again in the morning if you’d like, as long as you don’t say anything unkind. If you do, I’ll stop reading straight away, OK?’

      She looked at me quizzically but didn’t answer. Could she even remember saying she hated me? I told her to change into her pyjamas and left her to get undressed, hoping she would digest what I’d said. After a few moments I leaned my head around the door.

      ‘Goodnight, Phoebe.’

      ‘Goodnight, Phoebe.’

      Emily and Jamie were on the sofa when I returned to the living room and flopped between them with a loud sigh. ‘Fancy a game of rummy?’ I asked. Jamie nodded, fishing out his pack of cards from the magazine rack. After a full day with Phoebe it was the last thing I wanted to do, but a bit of individual time with the children usually worked wonders, relieving the tension that flowed between us in the early days of a placement.

      Jamie sat opposite, shuffling the cards.

      ‘She’s so weird,’ he said bluntly.

      ‘Shush, Jamie. Keep your voice down.’ I knew that children in care seemed to have an eerie bat-like ability to hear through walls, a response to being kept in the dark about so many issues concerning them. ‘We don’t want to hurt her feelings.’

      He looked chastened, drawing invisible patterns on the joker at the top of the pack. ‘Sorry, but I don’t think she has any feelings. She’s not very nice – I thought she was supposed to be warm and friendly?’

      ‘Mmm, bit of a stretch of the imagination, I must admit. But maybe that’s because we don’t understand her yet.’ I looked at Emily. ‘What do you think, Em?’

      My daughter gave me a sidelong glance. ‘What she did to my butterflies wasn’t too friendly,’ she jibed, grinning.

      ‘And chucking plates isn’t that warm,’ Jamie cut in, his eyes twinkling with humour.

      I laughed out loud, throwing my arms around both of them and planting kisses on their heads. ‘You’re wonderful, both of you, do you know that?’

      When my two went off to bed I settled myself in front of the computer, cradling a cup of hot tea in my hands. Sipping at my drink, I thought for a moment, then typed ‘autism’, ‘masturbation’, ‘young girls’ into Google’s search box. I was about to click the SEARCH button when the colour drained from my face as I realised what sort of results might come back. Half-choking on my tea I fumbled for the backspace button, hurriedly deleting all trace of what I’d written. Safely faced with a blank screen again I slumped back in the chair, filled with relief.

      Whatever was I thinking? Drawing my hands down my face, I cursed my own stupidity. I had known a few foster carers whose electronic equipment had been confiscated as a result of allegations made. Phones, laptops and PCs were then analysed by police officers, searching for inappropriate content. Frustrated, I realised I would have to conduct research in the old-fashioned way and visit the library.

      Savouring the warmth from the cup as it seeped into my fingers, I allowed my thoughts to drift. Toying with the mouse and watching the cursor dance around the screen, I decided to take a different approach and entered ‘symptoms of autism’ into the search engine, opting for the NHS choice at the top of the page. It was as though the author of the webpage had spent a day analysing Phoebe and listing his conclusions: unable to reciprocate in relationships, dislike of others, struggling with friendships, difficulty understanding personal space and recognising other people’s feelings, refusing overtures of affection, repeating words or phrases over and over, strange facial or body movements such as spinning or flapping hands, unusual sleeping or eating habits.

      But there was no mention of sexualised behaviour.

      Before logging off I sent Lenke an email with a copy of my daily log, detailing the ‘pen’ incident. Any disturbing conduct needed to be carefully recorded and I hoped that by reporting it, I could purge the image from my mind.

      But it wasn’t going to be that simple.

      I tossed and turned in bed, worrying about the implications of Phoebe’s self-abuse and wondering whether to try and discuss it with her, or if the matter was best ignored. I felt sad that a child would treat their own body in such a degrading way, though it seemed that Phoebe had no understanding of what she was actually doing. She might not, I thought, but my own children did. Could it possibly be reasonable to expose an 11-year-old boy to the kind of behaviour Phoebe had exhibited? And what effect might it have on his developing mind?

      I pulled the duvet up around my chin but still I couldn’t get comfortable, feeling stifled instead of cocooned. When I registered as a foster carer, I had resolved never to reject a child when the going got tough. If I asked for Phoebe to be moved on, I would be letting myself down, as well as her. What effect might outright rejection have on her? I wondered. But, on the other hand, my first responsibility had to be for Emily and Jamie.

      Over the years they had witnessed children struggling with all sorts of issues, responding with patience and kindness. I knew they would probably never ask for Phoebe to leave; they were too sympathetic to her plight to do that. But having to live with a child with such severe problems – my sleep-deprived brain worried that was a bit too much to expect them to cope with.

      As dawn approached, I decided I had no choice but to do something about it.

       Chapter 8

      It was with a heavy heart that I came downstairs the next morning, Phoebe following closely behind. She was unusually reserved, as if she could sense my plans to end the placement. Jamie was already in the kitchen, hair dishevelled, spilt cereal grains and pools of milk all over the worktop where he’d prepared his own breakfast. ‘Hi, Mum,’ he chirped mid-chew, wiping СКАЧАТЬ