Happy Family Book. How to stay happy in marriage. Irina Bjørnø

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      Everybody is familiar with the first one: Eros. Eros can be explained as sexual passion, or by using biology terminology, we can describe Eros as the hormonal (natural) love from nature’s side. Eros appears when people feel the need to have sex. Eros and sex are coupled together. Eros (the hormone cocktail in your blood) is the physical attraction of two bodies to create a new life. Eros can be controlled from the human side, but it takes a special education and skills to do it. Eros changes with the variations of the sexual hormone level inside your glands. Eros blinds people and they do not see the reality: they only want to satisfy their sexual desire. Eros is in our bloodstream, not in our mind. Eros is NOT intelligent but very primitive, for example some well respected people (i.e. B. Clinton) demonstrate it. Eros comes and goes. You cannot build a relationship based upon Eros. But you can enjoy the state, which Eros gives you: the sexual attraction with somebody to share the body experience. Eros is about you, not your partner, therefore in the marriage there are common problems about sexual desires from the male side and periods with sexual activities from the female side (only during special periods). It creates tension in family life because these two processes have different time tables for men and women. What is the solution? In the East, the solution is to have a variety of women at home – a harem (this solution is natural and honest). In the West, the solution is pornography, onanism, sexual frustration/dysfunction, prostitution, unfaithfulness. (These are unnatural and dishonest).