The Element Encyclopedia of Birthdays. Theresa Cheung

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       4 March the birthday of inspired aloneness

       Your greatest challenge is…

      learning to express your feelings

       The way forward is…

      to understand that if you don’t say what you mean or ask for what you want, people won’t understand you or be able to help you.

       You’re drawn to people born on…

       January 21 to February 19

      A relationship of opposites, you can learn much from each other about the importance of balancing inner and outer worlds.

       Luck maker

       Overcome shyness

      Lucky people aren’t necessarily the life and soul of the party but they know how to overcome shyness to get others on their side. Instead of thinking about yourself when you walk into a room, think about the people in the room.

      People born on March 4 tend to come across as self-contained individuals with an ingenuity that does not require outside stimulation and a creativity that is self-generated. They are able to work and, if need be, live alone. It’s not that they are antisocial or seek to cut themselves off from the outside world; it’s just that striking out alone is a dominant trend in their lives, often leading to success.

      For people born on this day, being alone isn’t scary; it’s a liberating experience and an opportunity for them to concentrate and be productive. Extremely comfortable with themselves, they often feel confined or trapped by social pressure and conformity. When they are alone they feel free rather than isolated; even when given the option to interact more, they will often choose to go it alone. This can come across as shyness or fear of involvement, but this misses the point about these gentle people.

      Although they hate confrontation and will withdraw at signs of conflict, they aren’t shy or passive but aware that they are most productive when living and working within guidelines set by themselves. They have an innovative and ingenious mind that works best when left alone and an ability to explore concepts with tenacity. Between the ages of seventeen and forty-six there is an emphasis on daring new ventures and, along with this, many opportunities for them to develop their assertiveness; these people need to ensure that others don’t take all the credit.

      The big danger for these people is that they indulge their natural tendency for self-involvement so much that they cut themselves off from reality, and from the joys and rewards of close personal relationships. It’s unfortunate if this happens, as they do love to share the results or benefits of their work with others, despite their natural reserve. They also have a great empathy for others, and when they choose to reveal or share their talents to the outside world they have the potential to influence, intrigue and inspire others with their vision.

       On the dark side

      Impersonal, self-involved, shy

       At your best

      Tenacious, independent, ingenious

      Love Give me space

      People born on March 4 really need space in a relationship and they will suffer if a partner tries to control or crowd them in any way. They tend to be attracted to people who are free-spirited and self-contained like themselves. Although they may have long gaps between relationships, when they find the right person they are capable of deep and lasting love and commitment.

      Health Having a good time

      Those born on this day need to make sure they don’t cut themselves off too much—or even completely—from the benefits of socializing. All activities that involve working or dealing with others are therefore recommended. Social forms of exercise and team sports are particularly beneficial as in these they can experience the joys of synergy. Having said that, it is equally important for people born on this day to have plenty of space to do and think their own things; having regular time out, rest and relaxation, especially outside in the fresh air, is important. Wearing, meditating on or surrounding themselves with the color red will encourage them to come out of themselves more.

      Career Born magicians

      These people are naturally suited to setting up and running their own business, preferably from their own home or office. They may also be attracted to writing in any form or to teaching, education, psychology, academia, research, the Church, the secret service, or computer programming. They may also be drawn to music, magic and the arts, and can make exceptional magicians or illusionists, conductors or DJs.

      Destiny To educate and inspire with their ingenuity