In Intimate Detail. Dita Teese Von

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Introduction

      Let’s be honest: lingerie is confusing. There are thousands of brands, hundreds of styles, and dozens of sizes. Even if you like the idea of lingerie, intimate apparel can be a complicated and bewildering world. What’s the difference between a demi bra and a balconette? What’s the point of having seams on a bra? More important, how do you find the right bra for you? Moving beyond bras, what kind of lingerie should you wear for formal occasions, your honeymoon, or even a regular workday? This book answers all that and more.

       Why Lingerie?

      Often, when I tell people that I write about lingerie, their first question is, “What’s the point?” And that’s understandable. Lingerie is mysterious. Most of us wear it in some form or another every day, but we don’t know much about it. What can good, functional, high-quality, and beautiful lingerie add to your life? Why should you pay special attention to your underthings at all? What if you’re plus-size or older or have never spent more than five minutes in the lingerie section of a department store?

      For many of us, lingerie can feel like a fancy party we weren’t invited to. All those delicate pieces might look pretty in a shop window or online but once you have them in hand and try them on, it can feel as though lingerie wasn’t made with you in mind at all. Does that mean lingerie is useless? Is it only for the supermodels among us?

      No. Not at all.

      Nice lingerie is for everyone. It’s for you. It’s for me. It’s for anyone who wants it. This book breaks down the barriers around lingerie, answers questions, simplifies hard-to-understand concepts, and makes sense of all the little things the experts take for granted. My hope is that by the end of this book, the world of lingerie will feel more accessible, more understandable, and, above all, like something you can continue to explore on your own. The emphasis here is on practical knowledge you can apply throughout your life for years to come—not on trends or fads.

      While lingerie can be baffling, puzzling, and sometimes even outright frightening, the good news is there’s never been a better time to become interested in lingerie. The number of sizes, brands, price points, and styles available at this moment in lingerie history is completely unparalleled. No matter your interest, aim, or situation, there is someone, somewhere, making lingerie with you in mind—for your body, your style, your taste, and your budget. In Intimate Detail is about giving you the tools you need to discover and confidently wear and care for these pieces.

      In this book, you’ll find recommendations for a range of body types, physical conditions, and life events. Why? Because our bodies are wonderful and glorious and amazing, and we all deserve to wear beautiful lingerie.

      However, there is one thing this book is not about, and that’s giving you rules about what you should wear. While you may see notes to give you fit advice or tell you about a certain style, I want you to use the information in In Intimate Detail as you see fit. There is no single way to wear lingerie. You should wear what you love and what makes you feel good, because you deserve that.

      Throughout this book, you’ll learn things like how to choose lingerie for your particular breast shape and fashion preferences, how to recognize high-quality lingerie, how to interpret industry terms (such as the difference between full bust and plus size), how to take care of your lingerie, and even how to give it as a gift. In Intimate Detail covers more specialty topics too, such as bra advice for those expecting a child and how to buy underwear if you’re coping with menopause. While I won’t claim this book covers everything—I know that’s impossible—I’ve tried to make this book the kind of resource that I wish had existed when I first became interested in lingerie.

      You’ll find advice and information on different types of intimate apparel—such as bras, underwear, shapewear, hosiery, and loungewear—followed by sections on how to apply your newfound practical knowledge when shopping for lingerie (both online and in boutiques or department stores), as well as how to care for it. Feel free to skip around and pick and choose which bits you’d like to read first.

      There’s another reason you should be a more informed and more knowledgeable lingerie buyer: you can demand better from the lingerie industry and from the brands that are making these products for you. An informed consumer is a powerful consumer. When you know what’s available as well as what’s possible, you can ask for better from the brands that make your underwear. Customer demand is the number-one incentive for brands to change things, and this book will give you the tools and the vocabulary you need to help make the changes you want to see happen.

      I’ve always believed lingerie is fashion too—that what we wear underneath is just as important as what’s worn on top. When talking about fashion or how to shop or what to wear, lingerie is often overlooked, but it’s as much a part of a stylish wardrobe as the perfect handbag, classic blazer, or chic little black dress. More than that, good lingerie helps us feel better about our bodies and ourselves. And it can help our clothes fit better too!

      By the end of this book, you’ll have an expert’s perspective on all the major highlights of the lingerie world. You’ll know what lingerie is right for you and why. You’ll have a better understanding of how and where to buy it and some little tricks and shortcuts for building your own uniquely beautiful lingerie collection. You’ll also find several appendices at the end of this book with a few practical lists, including an international bra size conversion chart. Finally, the appendices are also where you’ll find information for special concerns, such as lingerie advice for those transitioning, living with fibromyalgia, or coping with the aftereffects of a mastectomy. But first, let’s make sure we’re on the same page about what lingerie actually is.

       What Is Lingerie?

      Lingerie serves many purposes. It warms the body, protects our outer garments, offers modesty, and provides a barrier between our skin and harsh fabrics. Lingerie also supports the body and helps shape the figure according to current standards of beauty. Christian Dior once said, “Without foundations, there can be no fashion.” Fashion depends on lingerie. In the seventeenth century, a conically shaped torso was en vogue. A couple of centuries later, an hourglass figure was all the rage. A hundred years after that, fashion couldn’t get enough of the “natural” look. In every era, lingerie changes to support or even create the fashionable figure of the day.

      However, lingerie is also a physical representation of our culture. Intimate apparel embodies a number of codes or rules—things that are usually СКАЧАТЬ