Затаенная боль. Дневник психоаналитика. Каролин Эльячефф
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      После того как я написала, что никогда не прикасаюсь к детям, вас может удивить этот жест, но в отдельном случае этот вполне конкретный жест сопровождается объяснением, которое должно помочь ребенку воспринять собственное тело. (Прим. автора)

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      Флер /feur/ – цветок по-французски. /Прим. перев./

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      Франсуаза Дольто следующим образом объясняла, почему волнения или испуг могут вызвать лихорадку. В момент своего рождения человек внезапно и впервые из среды одной температуры попадает в среду совершенно другой температуры. Люди, которые в этот момент отделения от тела матери и перерезания пуповины пережили что-то неприятное, могут на всю жизнь сохранить физиологическую хрупкость и склонность к тревогам. Когда ребенок чего-то боится, он переводит этот страх для себя в «холодно» и отвечает «жарко», то есть дает температуру и реагирует внезапным жаром. /Франсуаза Дольто «Квебекские диалоги», 1987.

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