Название: Friends and Enemies: Our Need to Love and Hate
Автор: Dorothy Rowe
Издательство: HarperCollins
Жанр: Общая психология
isbn: 9780007466368
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Friends and Enemies
Our Need to Love and Hate
DOROTHY ROWE
To the memory of my dear friend
Hilary Surman
CONTENTS
CHAPTER 2 Learning to Become Ourselves
Others – The Necessity and the Threat
CHAPTER 3 Belonging to a Group
Defining Yourself and Your Group
Owing Allegiance to Your Group
Is Your Group Your Friend or Your Enemy?
CHAPTER 4 Belonging to a Family
Family – The Tie That Must Bind Us All?
CHAPTER 5 Belonging to a Place
CHAPTER 6 Strangers and Enemies
The Satisfactions and Failures of Revenge
CHAPTER 8 The Art of Friendship
Can Your Lover Be Your Friend?
Friendship is our greatest invention. No technological construction, no work of art, can compare with the art and skill of friendship which takes us out of the lonely world of our own individual perceptions and puts us close to another person, linked by feelings of love, trust, tolerance, sympathy, generosity, kindness, joy and humour. We can set ourselves the greatest tasks and achieve them, we can become rich, famous and powerful, but all our achievements will be mere dust and ashes if we are friendless. We can have lovers, we can have family, but all these relationships will bring us nothing but misery if they are not imbued with the qualities of friendship.
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