Lifestyle Gurus. Chris Rojek
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Название: Lifestyle Gurus

Автор: Chris Rojek

Издательство: John Wiley & Sons Limited

Жанр: Кинематограф, театр

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isbn: 9781509530205

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СКАЧАТЬ traditionally ‘feminine’ practices and the rise of the middle class. The shift from credentialled knowledge to lay knowledge has been conceived as part of the growing ‘informalisation’ of everyday life, where access to advice and expertise became relatively democratised and presented in increasingly accessible, digestible forms (Lewis 2008; Wouters 2007). Informalisation teaches that you are the master of your own destiny. However, because modern life is complex, and subject to change, every master needs an authoritative compass. Lifestyle gurus fulfil this role. They are ‘information providers’ who offer advice and guidance about how to manage oneself and navigate personal problems in everyday life (Hanusch 2013). The online ethos in which this is nurtured is one of non-hierarchical, alternative, co-operative labour. Most lifestyle gurus make a virtue of rejecting the ‘master–servant’ relationships of professional life as bad practice. Instead, in line with Enlightenment precedents, they cultivate an ethos of mutuality, informality, tolerance and openness. Getting the most out of yourself is typically presented as a ludic experience rather than a draft of medicine. The play form of self-motivation and self-construction allows life lessons to be learned in a non-hierarchical, enjoyable fashion. However, concomitant with this is the commodification of lifestyle, whereby ordinary life skills have become packaged and monetised (Fürsich 2012). True to their commercial roots, lifestyle gurus generally take it for granted that the best things in life do not come free. To be an optimal individual requires the cultivation and practice of positive ‘self-feeling’. The positive thinking strategies and methods of practice developed by online lifestyle gurus are commercially packaged to bring this within the reach of their subscribers.

      Today lifestyle gurus are often thought of as an adjunct of social media. This is a mistake. The phenomenon of virtue signalling and using positive thinking to achieve self-fulfilment and make a meaningful contribution to society pre-dates digital technology. What is commonly regarded as the first self-help book in English, Self-help with Illustrations of Character and Conduct (1859), was written by Samuel Smiles. The book was concerned with cultivating various human qualities in personal life and business and perseverance to the duty of ‘becoming a better person’. Smiles advised that people should learn from the Christian good example in history and society of people who would act as role models in the rational duty of self-improvement. In his later book, Character (1908), he comments on what readers of his own day could profitably learn from men and women of the past with respect to topics like ‘Companionship’, ‘Work’, ‘Courage’, ‘Self-Control’, ‘Duty’, ‘Truthfulness’ and ‘Temper’. These virtues are presented as lifestyle resources calculated to pay a dividend in – to borrow a phrase that he repeatedly returns to in the book – ‘the school life’. For Smiles, it is the will of God for each individual to work out the end of one’s being to the best of one’s power (Smiles 1908). However, charting a course without a proper life-compass to life runs the risk of shipping water. The principles of self-help are intended to be an exhaustive guide to the most effective methods for solving life’s problems and maximising one’s potential. It defines life, not merely as a passage, but as a project.

      The lessons absorbed at the hearth about how to be, and how to live with others, are the keystones of moral perfectionism. Equivalent respect for the virtues of time management is to be found in Isabella Beeton’s, Book of Household Management (1861). For example, in her advice to the ‘Mistress of the Household’, she writes:

      Early rising is one of the most essential qualities which enter into good Household Management, as it is not only the parent of health, but of innumerable other advantages. Indeed, when a mistress is an early riser, it is almost certain that her house will be orderly and well managed. On the contrary, if she remains in bed till a late hour, then the domestics who, as we have before observed, invariably partake somewhat of their mistress’s character, will surely become sluggards. (Beeton 1861: 2)

      1 Setting a good example and giving clear instructions to household staff as to their duties and what is expected of their moral bearing and behaviour;

      2 Controlling household finances (treating the home as a ‘cost centre’);

      3 Applying cleanliness, punctuality and order and time management consistently in the domestic sphere. (Wensley 2004: 67)