Twin to Twin. Crystal Duffy
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Название: Twin to Twin
Автор: Crystal Duffy
Издательство: Ingram
Жанр: Биографии и Мемуары
isbn: 9781633538344
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I had another sleepless night. I was mildly dizzy and had a headache—a common side effect from the drugs. I tossed and turned, checked the clock, attempted to calm myself, tried different positions, got up and paced and started the process all over again. The few times I dozed off, my subconscious worries morphed into frightening scenarios of the next day‘s events. In one dream, I watched as my babies were swept out to sea in a cradle. I swam as hard as I could, but I couldn’t reach them in time. When they disappeared, I dove down into the depths of the ocean to save them, but I couldn’t hold my breath long enough and nearly drowned. I awoke gasping for breath.
Without a doubt this laser ablation surgery would be a life-altering procedure Would our doctors be able to save both our babies from this dangerous disease? If the dreaded scenario occurred, would they be able to save at least one baby?
I had had so many tearful moments since our diagnosis—tears of terror, anger and confusion. But I was beginning to move past that. I realized my worrying wasn’t going to change the problems we faced. And, most importantly, I truly believed that the twins and I were one entity. Whatever I felt, they felt, whether it was joy or sadness and everything in between. If I let myself surrender to darkness, depression and negative thoughts, I feared my outcome would be darkened as well. I had to change. I had to no longer allow myself tears of terror, anger and sadness—no more worries or anxiety, only faith. Positive thoughts of hope and lots of prayers. It took everything in me to overshadow this frightening place and remember the happy moments of my life.
I relived my first moments alone with Abby. It was several hours after she was born. The hospital had gotten quiet: My visitors one by one had trickled out, the doctors were gone, the night nurses were at their stations, and Ed was fast asleep on the couch. My room was dark—only a small light in the side room was turned on. It was just me and Abby. The nurse had placed her in a clear plastic bassinet beside my bed. She was all swaddled up like a burrito—the pink, crochet baby blanket my mom had made was draped over her. She wore a pink and blue striped hospital cap with a little bow strung through the top that my nurse had made. I leaned over the rail on my hospital bed and carefully picked her up.
I held her in my arms which rested on my sore, deflated stomach. She was sleeping. I held her close to my face and breathed her in. Her fresh, sweet and immensely satisfying scent enthralled me. She smelled so delightful—like nothing I’d ever before experienced in my life. Somehow, her smell triggered a euphoric high in me. I sat there cradling her, gently rocking her back and forth and then she wiggled: her feet kicked—just as they had countless times when I was pregnant—as if trying to break free. She opened her eyes, her big beautiful blue eyes, and looked right at me. I gazed into her eyes, completely mesmerized by her power over me. It was in that moment, when it was just the two of us, that I looked at her and knew that there would never be a greater joy. I was holding my baby, this new life that Ed and I had created. She was finally here—this new person that would forever be connected to me. The elation that came from giving life to another human being would be unmatched by any other life experience. I knew for certain that I was meant to do it again someday, and this time I’d be bringing two lives into the world simultaneously. I lay in my bed, envisioned the happy outcome and felt it with my entire being.
I prayed nonstop that night before my surgery:
Lord, please help us and see us through this surgery. I ask that you be with the doctors and the surgeons tomorrow—that your steady hand be on theirs, guiding them as they do what they must do to safeguard the precious lives of my baby girls. Please, please, please.
We arrived at the hospital around 6:00 a.m. for our pre-op meeting with Dr. Miller.
“Right this way, Mrs. Duffy,” said the pre-op nurse. “If you’ll get undressed, and remove any jewelry or make-up then put on this gown. The doctor will be here shortly.”
A few minutes later, Dr. Miller—our high risk-pregnancy genius, in whom I had great confidence—entered the pre-op room, accompanied by a nurse wheeling a sonogram machine. The nervousness I had suppressed over the previous thirty-six hours rushed over me. I recalled Dr. Miller‘s words: “A year ago, I would have done the surgery immediately. But we’ve found that waiting a day after administering this medication will increase the chances that the recipient baby survives the surgery.”
I let myself fully realize what that meant: the danger my babies faced was not only real, but imminent, and with each passing moment, things could get worse. As I thought about the dire situation, I could not help but fear that the darn little red pills had failed to do their job. That my little recipient baby, Katie, could already be gone. The dread only grew when the nurse turned on the machine, and Dr. Miller began moving the sensor around. I felt conflicted—I wanted to know the truth, but I didn’t really. If Katie was already gone, I would be devastated. I didn’t know how I would be able to get through this surgery already knowing the outcome. Ed was right beside me, throughout the entire scan, holding my hand and reminding me to just breathe deeply. Just get through the next couple of minutes.
Peering at the screen, I could make out two shadowy shapes. The sonogram picture bounced around and shifted shape whenever the nurse touched it, making it impossible to discern anything, much less know if it was good or bad. I knew they were my babies, but like the day before, I couldn’t tell what was going on or whether the scene on the monitor was good, bad or inconclusive. I knew Dr. Miller knew, and as he opened his mouth to speak, I braced for the worst.
To my relief, he said, “It looks like we still have both babies.” It wasn’t exactly a ringing endorsement; the status quo had been preserved, but the status quo wasn’t exactly optimistic. Then Dr. Miller‘s slight smile conveyed that the twins’ condition might actually be looking up.
“Look here,” he said to us as he pointed to the screen, “you can see that the ventricles in the recipient‘s heart are showing improved diastolic flow.” The nurse smiled and nodded.
Although I couldn’t completely understand the medical jargon, I knew that hearing “improve” and “heart” in the same sentence was a good thing.
Dr. Miller continued, “It‘s quite remarkable to see this level of improvement after just twenty-four hours of the Nifedipine treatment.”
Thank you, little red pills. Ed grabbed my hand and squeezed. Finally, I thought. Maybe we turned a corner. Things were starting to improve—my calmness and positive energy had paid off. But we were by no means out of the woods yet. Hell, we hadn’t even had the laser ablation surgery yet, nor did we know whether it would even be feasible. But, for the first time since Dr. Bill had given us the dreaded diagnosis, we had a piece of good news. My babies were both alive, and they were already starting to feel better.
After hearing the news, I felt a bit more relaxed—maybe a bit too relaxed. A different nurse came in to start my IV and give me blood pressure-reducing medication—standard operating procedure before the surgery. Thankfully, Ed noted that I had already had a dose of Nifedipine, the same blood pressure-reducing medication the nurse wanted to give me, earlier that morning as one of Dr. Miller‘s instructions to increase the chance that the recipient twin survived the surgery.
“Oh, thanks,” the nurse said nonchalantly. “It definitely wouldn’t be good for you to take a second one, especially since your blood pressure is low already; the last thing we need is СКАЧАТЬ