Название: Grand Adventures
Автор: Alastair Humphreys
Издательство: HarperCollins
Жанр: Спорт, фитнес
isbn: 9780008131944
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I think the benefits of travelling alone include:
Freedom to attach or detach yourself to or from groups without any ill-feeling. It’s easier to take risks.
Whilst the advantages of going with someone else include:
You don’t have to always introduce yourself and tell people the same story day in, day out: this gets old after a while.
If you’re on a road trip, it’s definitely worth going with a friend. Saying that, this can make or break your trip, so choose carefully. Doing a trip with someone else can create a very strong bond for life, but I have also known of best friends return and never speak again. There are people all over the place who are keen for randomness, so don’t think if you can’t find someone straightaway that you’re going to be lonely!
TIM MOSS
MOUNTAINEER, ADVENTURER, CYCLIST
I think the benefits of travelling alone include:
For me, travelling solo is a much more powerful experience. That sounds a bit melodramatic but there’s something about being on your own all the time, making every little decision by yourself and living through all these experiences without anyone around with whom you can share them.
Whilst the advantages of going with someone else include…
The highs and lows are mellower by virtue of being shared and, generally, I’d say it is easier and a lot more fun.
If I had to choose… I don’t think recommending one over the other is illuminating. If you want to test yourself, push yourself and have a deeper experience, I’d suggest going solo. If you’d rather enjoy yourself (assuming you have a good partner) and have your problems halved, go with someone else.
OLLY WHITTLE
CANOED DOWN THE MEKONG
I do most of my adventures alone and I think it’s actually more of a challenge to do them in a group, so that’s what I might plan next. Also, I think a pair is completely different from alone and a group. A pair may fall out big time, which I think is less likely in a three or more.
I think the benefits of travelling alone include:
It’s easier to actually get started.
No responsibilty for others’ safety (if you mess up, it’s only you that’s in trouble).
You don’t have to worry whether everyone is enjoying themselves (adventures are rarely pure fun).
It’s scarier, there’s a bigger sense of stretching yourself.
If I had to choose for my next adventure, I would go in a group because I’ve already done loads alone so it will give me new challenges. I probably wouldn’t choose a pair.
DOM GILL
CYCLED THE AMERICAS ON A TANDEM, PICKING UP PASSENGERS EN ROUTE
I still love the idea of doing solo journeys. There is something very viscerally primeval about them. I like the introspection. And actually, I become a little addicted to the sort of low-level depression that I experience on those trips. You get very lonely, and when you’re lonely, you think very profoundly about all sorts of aspects of life. It may be depressing, but I’m able to think creatively and write and expand upon ideas. I love that aspect of solo travel. And there’s always the bravado aspect of getting through it, getting through to the other side and talking about the fact that you did it on your own. Especially as a male, I think that’s a little attractive. Doing stuff with companions, I think, is more conducive to learning life lessons. Having to mix with all these new people who moments ago were strangers gives me a very refreshing understanding of people. And I like to think that increases my ability to communicate with the world around me.
COLIN WILLOX
BACKPACKED ROUND EUROPE
There is an unwritten bond between lone travellers. It’s called ‘Holy shit, let’s be friends’, and its participants are not those who turn their head away when you walk in the door, but the ones who keep looking and maybe flash you a smile. You make friends so fast on the road. It’s unbelievable.
ANDREW FORSTHOEFEL
WALKED 4,000 MILES ACROSS THE USA
I felt less lonely than I thought I would. But there were times, of course, when I felt lonely, when you’re having these moments of, ‘Oh my God, I can’t believe I’m experiencing this’ and I don’t get to share it with anybody. I think maybe as human beings there’s this natural desire to communicate and tell our stories to each other and revel in these experiences together. Not being able to do that in the moment was hard sometimes. But I think it made those moments when you could share something with somebody much more special. I think the solitude and sometimes loneliness – but just that aloneness – really accentuated those times when I was hanging out with people.
© Alastair Humphreys
JESSICA WATSON
SAILED SOLO ROUND THE WORLD, AGED 16
Sharing adventures with friends is really amazing and a good way to get to know someone well, but there’s also something very special about having an adventure all to yourself. Maybe it’s a little selfish but there’s something wonderful about a special moment being all yours.
TIM HOBIN
PADDLED THE GANGES IN A £50 KAYAK
When I think back now, highlights include pushing off onto the river through the cool and fragrant early morning mist as the sun rose and the delicious solitude that solo travel brings.
NIC CONNER
CYCLED FROM THE UK TO JAPAN FOR £1,000
My friend gave up in Russia. We’re still really good mates. It doesn’t really matter how fit you are, it’s the mental determination, and I think he wasn’t as committed as I was. He did well – he cycled to Russia and then he cycled home. In the time it took me to get from Moscow to Tokyo, he had cycled home via southern Europe, met a girl, moved in with her and started a business with her. John was an experienced cyclist and had done a lot of tours so it was great to have him around, especially in the first couple of months. But, if it was tomorrow, I’d start by myself.
JAMES CASTRISSION
KAYAKED THE TASMAN SEA
Some advice I got back when I was having a big difficult patch with [my expedition partner] Jonesy, a friend said to me, ‘Look, even if you are responsible for 80 per cent of the project, 80 per cent is not going to get you to the start line.’ And that’s with me operating 24 hours a day. So if Jonesy only did 20 per cent that was enough. But on the trip itself, that’s really where Jonesy’s strong point is. He more than made up for everything out on the trip itself.
KYLE HENNING
TRAVELLED FROM THE LOWEST POINT IN AFRICA TO THE HIGHEST
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