13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do. Amy Morin
Чтение книги онлайн.
Читать онлайн книгу 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do - Amy Morin страница
Название: 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do
Автор: Amy Morin
Издательство: HarperCollins
Жанр: Общая психология
isbn: 9780008105945
isbn:
Copyright
HarperThorsons
An imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers 1 London Bridge Street London SE1 9GF
First published in US by William Morrow, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers 2015 This UK edition published by HarperThorsons 2015
Designed by Jamie Lynn Kerner
© Amy Morin 2015
A catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library.
While every effort has been made to trace the owners of copyright material reproduced herein and secure permissions, the publishers would like to apologise for any omissions and will be pleased to incorporate missing acknowledgements in any future edition of this book.
Amy Morin asserts the moral right to be identified as the author of this work
All rights reserved under International and Pan-American Copyright Conventions. By payment of the required fees, you have been granted the nonexclusive, non-transferable right to access and read the text of this e-book on screen. No part of this text may be reproduced, transmitted, downloaded, decompiled, reverse engineered, or stored in or introduced into any information storage retrieval system, in any form or by any means, whether electronic or mechanical, now known or hereinafter invented, without the express written permission of HarperCollins e-books.
Find out about HarperCollins and the environment at www.harpercollins.co.uk/green
Source ISBN: 9780008105938
Ebook Edition © 2014 ISBN: 9780008105945
Version: 2014-12-15
To all who strive to become better today than they were yesterday
Contents
Introduction
What is Mental Strength?
Chapter 1 They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves
Chapter 2 They Don’t Give away their Power
Chapter 3 They Don’t Shy away from Change
Chapter 4 They Don’t Focus on things they can’t Control
Chapter 5 They Don’t Worry about Pleasing Everyone
Chapter 6 They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks
Chapter 7 They Don’t Dwell on the Past
Chapter 8 They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over
Chapter 9 They Don’t Resent other People’s Success
Chapter 10 They Don’t Give Up after the First Failure
Chapter 11 They Don’t Fear Alone Time
Chapter 12 They Don’t Feel the World Owes them Anything
Chapter 13 They Don’t Expect Immediate Results
Conclusion Maintaining Mental Strength
When I was twenty-three, my mother died suddenly from a brain aneurysm. She’d always been a healthy, hardworking, vibrant woman who had loved life right up until her last minute on earth. In fact, I saw her the night before she died. We met at an auditorium to watch a high school basketball tournament. She was laughing, talking, and enjoying life like she always did. But just twenty-four hours later she was gone. The loss of my mother affected me deeply. I couldn’t imagine going through the rest of my life without her advice, laughter, or love.
At the time, I was working as a therapist at a community mental health center, and I took a few weeks off to privately deal with my grief. I knew I couldn’t be effective at helping other people unless I was able to productively deal with my own feelings. Becoming used to a life that no longer included my mother was a process. It wasn’t easy, but I worked hard to get myself back on my feet. From my training as a therapist, I knew that time doesn’t heal anything; it’s how we deal with that time that determines the speed at which we heal. I understood that grief was the necessary process that would eventually alleviate my pain, so I allowed myself to feel sad, to get angry, and to fully accept what I’d truly lost when my mother passed away. It wasn’t just that I missed her—it was also the painful realization that she would never be there again during the important events in my life and that she would never experience the things СКАЧАТЬ