Give Birth Like a Feminist. Milli Hill

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      On the movie, which has since been viewed over half a million times, Kimberly can be heard begging, ‘No! Why? Why can’t we try?’ as the doctor’s voice becomes more aggressive, telling her, ‘Listen: I am the expert here,’ and mocking her suggestion that she can do it herself, telling her, ‘You can go home and do it. You go to Kentucky.’ Just to clarify, Kimberly was not from Kentucky – he meant it as a slur and an implication of ‘backwardness’.

      The doctor then proceeds to perform the episiotomy with twelve audible cuts to her perineum.

      It’s harrowing viewing. Perhaps more harrowing is the thought that Kimberly is very much not alone: a survey in 2013 by Childbirth Connection[24] found that 6 out of 10 US episiotomies were performed without consent. What makes Kimberly’s case unusual is not that her body was violated in the name of expertise and safety, but that she had this violation entirely captured on camera and that b) she was determined to fight back. With the help of advocacy organisation Improving Birth, Kimberly went in search of a lawyer to take her case. It’s notable that this in itself took 18 months. ‘It took us a year and a half to find a lawyer, in spite of clear, video evidence of blatant disregard and abuse,’ Dawn Thompson of Improving Birth explained. ‘This should be really concerning for a lot of people! Women are coming to us and talking about coercion, manipulation, abuse – every single day, and some of it is just being accepted because it’s just considered par for the course of giving birth in our current maternity care system.’

      ‘Many of the lawyers we’ve spoken to are not sure whether a woman giving birth has the right to say “No” to a medical procedure,’ her colleague Cristen Pascucci told me during their search for legal representation. ‘And they don’t see the dollar value in litigating this kind of a case, when they know that, just like them, any jury probably believes that the best outcome of childbirth is a live baby – irrespective of whether the mother has been maimed by her care providers in the process.’

      Eventually the case was settled out of court in 2017, amidst wide praise for Kimberly for highlighting the issue of consent and abuse in the birth room. Her attorney, the prominent civil rights lawyer Mark Merrin, called the lawsuit, ‘a big step for women who have been silenced’. It’s easy to see this story as an isolated case, or to conceptualise it as an American problem, but, unfortunately, it’s just one example of a widespread, global issue, referred to as ‘obstetric violence’.

      It’s worth saying at this point that the term ‘obstetric violence’, perhaps understandably, tends to push buttons and cause misunderstanding, first and foremost because people mistakenly think that ‘obstetric’ implies it is only perpetrated by obstetricians. In fact, ‘obstetric’ simply means ‘relating to childbirth and the processes associated with it’, and the term therefore covers any violation a woman experiences in the birth setting. The second word in the term – ‘violence’ – also causes confusion. While people are generally able to accept that pushing or hitting or maliciously hurting a person is ‘violence’, when a professional is ‘just doing their job’ and ‘helping the baby to be born safely’, for example by insisting they stay on the bed when they really want to move, it is harder to understand this as a violent act. Nor do we always understand acts of coercion, emotional or psychological abuse, lack of proper consent, misuse of power, or abusive or unkind language as acts of ‘violence’. Indeed, as we have seen in the case of Kimberly Turbin, even when the act is quite clearly aggressive and violent towards the woman, there is a kind of cultural blind spot that allows us, for the most part, to accept it as ‘just what birth is like’.

      Kimberly’s case is an extreme example of obstetric violence; there are also many other more subtle ways in which a woman can feel violated during her birth experience, and they are all equally valid. It might be helpful for everyone if obstetric violence were instead called ‘obstetric abuse’ or even ‘birth abuse’, in order for everyone to understand fully just what and who is encompassed by this broad term. However, too much debate around the semantics can evolve into a distraction from the solid fact: this is happening to women, and we need to hear their voices. Perhaps, as Mila Oshin, the director of the Digital Institute for Early Parenthood (DIEP), put it at a Birth Trauma conference I attended in 2018, we need to accept that those who have not experienced obstetric violence are last on the list to decide how it should be named. ‘The term obstetric violence is one that does not necessarily reflect the intentions of others, but I feel entitled to use it in reference to my experience,’ she said.

      Thanks to Latin American birth activists, Venezuela is the first country formally to define obstetric violence, making it one of nineteen kinds of punishable violence against women. It’s helpful to read their definition and consider how it applies to our own experiences of maternity care, wherever we may be in the world.

       The appropriation of a woman’s body and reproductive processes by health personnel, in the form of dehumanizing treatment, abusive medicalization and pathologization of natural processes, involving a woman’s loss of autonomy and of the capacity to freely make her own decisions about her body and sexuality, which has negative consequences for a woman’s quality of life.[25]

      The following list, from Venezuelan law, of what constitutes obstetric violence, is also helpful. They state that it encompasses:

       untimely and ineffective attention to obstetric emergencies

       forcing the woman to give birth in a supine position when the necessary means to perform a vertical delivery are available

       impeding early attachment of the child with his/her mother without a medical cause

       altering the natural process of low-risk labour and birth by using augmentation techniques

       performing caesarean sections when natural childbirth is possible, without obtaining the voluntary, expressed, and informed consent of the woman.[26]

      Both action and inaction can be violent, and violating. Neglecting a woman in labour who is asking for pain relief or stating that something is wrong, denying access to a caesarean, or intervening too late,[27] could be considered acts of violence, just as the ‘too much too soon’[28] approach can also be violent, undermining a woman’s autonomy and depriving her of the chance to experience her own bodily capabilities. The World Health Organisation (WHO) has also called for the prevention and elimination of abuse and disrespect during childbirth, and the reduction of unnecessary intervention, stating that, ‘The growing knowledge on how to initiate, accelerate, terminate, regulate, or monitor the physiological process of labour and childbirth has led to an increasing medicalisation of the process. It is now being understood that this approach may undermine a woman’s own capability in giving birth and could negatively impact her experience of what should normally be a positive, life-changing experience.’[29] As Dr Princess Nothemba Simelela, WHO Assistant Director-General for Family, Women, Children and Adolescents, put it in February 2018, ‘A “good birth” goes beyond having a healthy baby.’[30]

      Women who say they have experienced obstetric violence normally describe situations where they feel their personhood has been disregarded, their voice has not been heard, they have not been properly informed of what is happening to them, they have not given their consent to a procedure, or they feel that their body boundaries have been transgressed without permission. They often use the language of rape and violation, reflecting the sexual and intimate nature of the birth process. In many cases they feel they have been treated with straightforward cruelty or disrespect, but at times they also express an understanding that the professionals in charge of their care were ‘doing what they had to do’, but that they could have done this in a way that made them feel more involved, informed, and respected: ‘This would not have taken much time but it would have made all the СКАЧАТЬ